Swingers weekend vending Mizzy's Boutique at Deviant

A beautiful reminder…

When the most simplistic beings bring so much beauty. After a crazy week of many ups and downs, I remembered change is difficult but so beautiful. Breathe and let be, be.


The Location

What an incredible location in the Catskills mountains as we enjoyed a fantastic weekend vending Mizzy’s Boutique at The Deviant Network Camping Takeover June 25-27, 2021

The location is absolutely gorgeous! Set on private property with two buildings, pool and walking paths for your nature enjoyment. We had the opportunity to arrive Thursday night, spending time with the crew, getting to know everyone around the fire. It was one of those crisp cold nights in the mountains, but you really didn’t care because the setting was just perfect. (One of the reasons I travel with my blanket everywhere)

The owners of the Deviant Brand, are such gracious hosts and amazing humans overall. They are so passionate in regards to all their business entities that is was truly a pleasure to listen and learn. Starting with their events, to their boutique, to erotic games that are now sold at Mizzy’s Boutique and so much more.

The Set Up

One of the things we enjoy most is the set up. Our true creativity comes out in various forms, allowing us to build an amazing output. We are like a well oiled machine .. he has his job and I have mine.

Spencer really loves creating the ambiance with lighting, music, tent positioning etc. He always has a vision, executing perfectly. So set up begins with him getting that all in order. I don’t start unpacking until the tent is positioned and he gives me the ok. One of the things we‘ve learned is not to get in the middle of the process. When I do, he gets frustrated and I’m usually wrong (well… maybe 50% of the time).

This particular time he was absolutely on point with his requested tent spot and the difficulties it took to make it happen (remember, we were in the mountains, on some bumpy grounds, so it can be a challenge to sort the setup properly), as it was the right angle for the wind to not blow the fire smoke into the Boutique. I mean, how naive of me, but I didn’t even think about that! He’s an incredible human with a great eye that I will be forever thankful for. We compliment each other perfectly.

Once the tent goes up, I start my set up. I Usually pop my ear buds in and get to work. I know it’s rude, but it really helps me flow into the event and find my own zen. If I were being really truthful, it helps me disconnect from everyone for a bit as well. During travel weekends it’s important to find my own down time to recharge. The music, my music helps.

Its Party Time

Welcome to the swingers weekend camp takeover! Friday nights are usually a bit toned down due to the fact so many are coming from work or traveling a few hours, making it a pretty long day. Its the perfect night for low key meet & greet!

No matter the day or time, we are always jamming out in the boutique. It really becomes our home away from home. The best part about it is, each location and event brings a different kind of energy. Having the boutique allows us to interact with so many humans, as mostly everyone eventually makes it over to check things out. So a bit more personalized In a quieter space.

As you can tell by the booty shake, we have the most amazing time anywhere we go.

There’s always time to stop and smell the roses … in this case, pancakes

Spencer is all about sniffing the flowers and it’s so refreshing, most of the time. Lol.

Saturday morning before the event really started, we took some time for ourselves venturing to the Phoenicia Diner for breakfast. As you can see it’s incredibly adorable. They do have indoor dining, however it was COVID times, so outdoor was the only options.

He’s so handsome!

Breakfast truly is my favorite meal of the day!

It’s the perfect Upstate New York location!

Because selfies are a must!

After breakfast we hit the nature trails, my favorite outdoor activity. Put me in the woods and I’m a happy gal!

Let the swingers event begin!

Sorry folks, this is all we are able to show from the night, but I assure you.. it was fantastic!

Hoping you’ll stick around to follow The Adventures of Mizzy Bender…

Until next time, I’ll talk to you real soon



About Mizzy Bender

Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.

Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!


About Mizzy’s Boutique Mizzy’s Boutique is an Alternative Lifestyle Gift Shop, making it easy for you to ship our products directly to your loved one. We’d be happy to include a complementary personalized note. Please send us the text you’d like us to use in the notes in the seller field.

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Why buy from Mizzy’s Boutique

✨Hand made, created by Mizzy Bender

✨High quality adult novelties

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About Mindbender Parties

Mindbender Parties starts with you and your choices of how you embrace the lifestyle. From mild to wild, your kinks are our pleasures. We put a great deal of time and effort into our events to do our best to meet your every desires. Upon arrival, you'll be greeted by one of our event Security Staff who will introduce themselves and offer their service throughout the evening. Assuring your safety and comfort are our #1 priority. Once inside you'll have the opportunity to mix and mingle with a respectful and attractive crowd. From there, let your inhibitions guide you. Whether it is dancing the night away to our DJ, tempting and teasing the crowd on the pole, take a ride on the swing or letting it all hang out in the play area, we find that our crowd of real people come back again and again.

Our friends are yours and we hope your friends will become ours. ''Mindbender Parties: where life is anything but the ordinary!''


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