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Advice to Newbies Entering the Swingers/Alternative Lifestyle

Every now and then I feel it is important to revisit advice to newbies when entering the lifestyle. Sharing stories of what Ive gone through to share some awareness on red flags and confidence, knowing what it is that you want out of your alternative lifestyle.


Wendy from The Paradise Club, PA and I share our thoughts and experiences to help guide those seeking advice.


To listen to the Episode click here

About The Paradise Club

The Paradise Club is an 8300 sq. ft. upscale party facility nestled in the beautiful Pocono Mountains. The club was created for lifestyle couples who enjoy friendly, open-minded, liberated adult fun & excitement, in a clean and secure environment. Enjoy a romantic getaway and fulfill your intimate fantasies. You'll find that we are conveniently close but just far enough away.


The club prides itself on being a place where you can go for a relaxed atmosphere with no pressures from any of the members. The intimate environment with like-minded adults leads to a more memorable experience with your partner.


Relax on the deck or in the outdoor hot tub under the stars. Our heated indoor pool makes every party a pool party. Or get out on the dance floor with the stripper pole and heat it up to the best dance music on a professional sound and light system. Once you have spent some time in the club’s main social area, make your way downstairs to the playrooms. There are several theme rooms to choose from. Enjoy a private room with your partner or leave the door open, it's up to you. If you're really feeling frisky, go all out in our open Roman Room. We guarantee it will be an intoxicating hedonistic atmosphere! You will fulfill your fantasies.

We have the best dinner and dessert buffet around everything is made homemade in house. Dinner buffet is open at 8pm and dessert goes out at 10pm food is available throughout the night until it's gone.


The Paradise Club opens to New Members between 7-8 pm, Members at 8 pm, and the music is shut off at 3:30 am, we close at 4 am.

We can't wait to see you! Love, "The Nuts"

 

Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.

Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!

 

About Mizzy’s Boutique Mizzy’s Boutique is an Alternative Lifestyle Gift Shop, making it easy for you to ship our products directly to your loved one. We’d be happy to include a complementary personalized note. Please send us the text you’d like us to use in the notes in the seller field.

Mizzy’s Boutique is available for custom orders, feel free to contact us for additional information. Responds in less then 24 hours.

Click here to see all that we have to offer. While you’re there, subscribe to our shop to receive discounts and new items released.

ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:

Why buy from Mizzy’s Boutique

✨Hand made, created by Mizzy Bender

✨High quality adult novelties

✨Trustworthy customer service


If you have any questions, please feel free to message us. Mizzysboutique@outlook.com

 

Mindbender Parties starts with you and your choices of how you embrace the lifestyle. From mild to wild, your kinks are our pleasures. We put a great deal of time and effort into our events to do our best to meet your every desires. Upon arrival, you'll be greeted by one of our event Security Staff who will introduce themselves and offer their service throughout the evening. Assuring your safety and comfort are our #1 priority. Once inside you'll have the opportunity to mix and mingle with a respectful and attractive crowd. From there, let your inhibitions guide you. Whether it is dancing the night away to our DJ, tempting and teasing the crowd on the pole, take a ride on the swing or letting it all hang out in the play area, we find that our crowd of real people come back again and again.

Our friends are yours and we hope your friends will become ours. ''Mindbender Parties: where life is anything but the ordinary!''

 

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Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

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