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Swingers Alternative Lifestyle Influencer and Entrepreneur: Mizzy Bender

Young, Wild & Free

About The Mizzy Bender Brand

The Mizzy Bender brand has been an unexpected adventure that is continuously evolving. My journey over the past two years has been completely life changing and the exact opposite of what it was. August 2018, I made a huge life decision to separate from my husband of 15 years, leaving everything behind. Sometimes, we have to make choices that we don’t necessarily want to make but ultimately have to for our own sanity, peace and happiness. Ill never forget July 2018, I was turning 35 and at some point, I said to myself…you can not live another day of this life. I lived my life for a certain purpose, and it wasn’t for myself. I made choices that would be in the best interest for others and put my needs and priorities last.

Around the same time, I met my now life partner and owner of Mindbender Parties who helped navigate so many emotions and thoughts. He gave me a safe place to break down all my walls and encouraged me to find myself. But it was more of, find my real true self. Not everything I was meant to believe I was supposed to be. They are very different things and honestly extremely hard to navigate. Over the past years not only have I found who I am, but I am leading the way in our community to women and all genders to find their true self power. How did this come to be?

On March 14, 2020 we (Mindbender Parties) were set to host an event in Philadelphia however, COVID had just made headlines and we did not feel comfortable traveling or proceeding with events until further notice. You can imagine how frightening this was as a business, not knowing what would come next. We finally made the decision on March 13th to cancel all events until further notice. With such uncertain times, we were brainstorming ways to stay connected to our community, providing support and encouragement however possible.

We decided to host an online Facebook Live event on March 14th bringing our St. Patrick's shenanigans to life from our living room. It was the most on the fly program but it received an outpouring amount of love and support with the request to continue something similar due to the current circumstances at hand.

With great thought and a heavy mind, that Tuesday, after the world had gone into silent mode, I couldn’t sleep. I ended up logging on to Facebook and went live for hours. I spoke to hundreds of people that morning who were all sharing how scared and uneasy they were. It was a really emotional moment for me. At that moment I recognized the world needed something and I needed to figure out how to help. That Thursday, Morning’s with Mizzy was formed. It began as a five our live stream running 7am-12pm. People from all over the US and International viewers would log on at various times participating in the show. We had amazing conversation about everything you could think of. It was raw and real. Extremely emotion and heartwarming at the same time. As time went on and COVID progressed, the show slowly shifted to where it stands now every Tuesday & Thursday from 7am-8am. I am most proud of this show. To watch the growth of people become so in tune with themselves. Allow such vulnerability in such a wild time was incredible. (currently on pause)

This was just the beginning. I cant wait to dive in, starting to unleash my mind, and take my journaling to a whole new level.

Hoping you’ll stick around to follow

The Adventures of Mizzy Bender…

Until next time, I’ll talk to you real soon



Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.

Mizzy Bender is a 38 year old female entrepreneur leading the way within the Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling East Coast putting on full thematic lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Spencer. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where we can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without judgments, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.

Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed, starting as an online shop that has migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at alternative lifestyle events across the US.

Shortly there after, the podcast, The Mizzy Bender Show was created.

Follow the journey to see where this influencer goes next!


About Mizzy’s Boutique Mizzy’s Boutique is an Alternative Lifestyle Gift Shop, making it easy for you to ship our products directly to your loved one. We’d be happy to include a complementary personalized note. Please send us the text you’d like us to use in the notes in the seller field.

Mizzy’s Boutique is available for custom orders, feel free to contact us for additional information. Responds in less then 24 hours.

Click here to see all that we have to offer. While you’re there, subscribe to our shop to receive discounts and new items released.


Why buy from Mizzy’s Boutique

✨Hand made, created by Mizzy Bender

✨High quality adult novelties

✨Trustworthy customer service

If you have any questions, please feel free to message us.


Mindbender Parties starts with you and your choices of how you embrace the lifestyle. From mild to wild, your kinks are our pleasures. We put a great deal of time and effort into our events to do our best to meet your every desires. Upon arrival, you'll be greeted by one of our event Security Staff who will introduce themselves and offer their service throughout the evening. Assuring your safety and comfort are our #1 priority. Once inside you'll have the opportunity to mix and mingle with a respectful and attractive crowd. From there, let your inhibitions guide you. Whether it is dancing the night away to our DJ, tempting and teasing the crowd on the pole, take a ride on the swing or letting it all hang out in the play area, we find that our crowd of real people come back again and again.

Our friends are yours and we hope your friends will become ours. ''Mindbender Parties: where life is anything but the ordinary!''


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