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My First MFM Lifestyle Experience: Absolutely Mind-Bending
Join Mizzy Bender as she shares her deeply personal, raw, and empowering story about her first MFM threesome experience. From nervous excitement to explosive pleasure, this unfiltered blog offers a real-life look into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy.
3 days ago8 min read


Swinger Lifestyle Unfiltered: Body Image, Boundaries, and Mental Health with Mizzy Bender
Welcome to a live Q&A session hosted by me, Mizzy Bender, where I discuss various aspects of the swinger lifestyle, my personal experiences, and answering questions while providing advice and insights. The discussion covers topics such as my struggles with body image and sexuality, my recent weekend adventures, the importance of communication and setting boundaries in the lifestyle, and the role of mental health awareness.
Jun 192 min read


Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle
Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle How to Talk to your Partner about Swinging Mizzy...
Jun 32 min read


The Swingers Lifestyle: What Excites Mizzy Bender
Today we are tapping into "What excites" me when attending a swingers party. I am writing in chronological order, so this subject may pop up
Apr 66 min read


Weekend of Desire: Anticipation, Sexting, and Sensual Swingers Adventure Awaits!
Charlie, however, doesn't immediately respond. Instead, he goes silent. My heart sinks momentarily—a familiar feeling since Charlie often dr
Mar 313 min read


Fourth of July - The Turning Point to me Finding my Way into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car
Mar 267 min read


Swingers Wanna Know Q&A Series on The Mizzy Bender Show - An Adult Podcast : Ep 5
Last year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and conversate with other community memb
Mar 62 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Podcast (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 4
On this episode of Mornings with Mizzy we discuss the swingers lifestyle in depth including body insecurities, etiquette, vetting, club loca
Feb 182 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 1
Episode 1: LIVE on Instagram & Facebook: Mornings with Mizzy if you missed it! Join me at 8am EST every Monday to talk about it all! Today
Jan 272 min read


Mizzy's Birthday Bash
It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!
Aug 6, 202414 min read


New Hampshire: The Unexpected Adventure From Swinging to Vanilla
The weekend we didn't know we needed! The weekend we had planned is not the weekend that happened. Read all about our swingers adventure.
Jul 15, 202410 min read


Naughty in Neon
What an incredible weekend creating a swingers glowing dream with Naughty in Neon by Mindbender Parties. Read all about the weekend.
Jul 11, 20249 min read


Boo 6, A Mindbender Production - A Swingers Party Success
The Adventures of Mizzy Bender October 2023 Boo 6, A Mindbender Production - A Swingers Party Success TIME TO GET THE DAY STARTED It was...
Nov 23, 20239 min read


Adventures of Mizzy Bender : October 2023
Wow! It's been a great month full of fun, friends and sexy times! In this blog, we're going on an adventure through my thoughts ...
Oct 23, 20236 min read


Swingers Take on Dirty Circus
Swingers take on Dirty Circus, Brooklyn.
Oct 3, 20236 min read


SDC : International Swingers Site - Our Sponsor
SEEK, DISCOVER AND CONNECT WITH SDC. SDC is the world’s largest lifestyle community to hook up with open-minded couples and singles,...
Feb 18, 20211 min read
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