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Mizzy Bender is a Be You - Swingers lifestyle influencer who loves to blog about personal experiences all while educating on how to live out an open relationship. Mizzy's journey into ethical non-monogamy started out and continues with Mindbender Parties hosting adult (swingers) lifestyle parties and now owns Mizzy's Boutique an adult novelty shop online.
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Adult Lifestyle Blog
Explore the World of Ethical Non-Monogamy with Mizzy Bender
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Welcome to the Mizzy Bender Blog, your go-to destination for all things swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, and sexual wellness. Whether you're looking for educational insights, fun personal experiences, or adventurous stories, Mizzy's blog delivers an engaging mix of blogs and vlogs that inspire, inform, and entertain.
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From swinger lifestyle tips and relationship advice to sizzling travel experiences and community connections, Mizzy Bender keeps it real with authentic storytelling and expert knowledge. Dive into our latest posts and join a community that embraces open-minded living, confidence, and empowerment.
Shop Our Adult Novelty Store Online
Welcome to Mizzy’s Boutique, your one-stop shop for adult novelties designed for all humans, including swingers, kinksters, and those in the ethical non-monogamy lifestyle. Explore a diverse selection of sexy accessories, lifestyle apparel, pineapple swinger swag, erotic party games for adults, and erotic home goods. Shop unique, high-quality items that celebrate pleasure, fun, and self-expression! We want you to BE YOU!
Adult Lifestyle Parties
Mindbender Parties starts with you and your choices of how you embrace the lifestyle. From mild to wild, your kinks are our pleasures. We put a great deal of time and effort into our events to do our best to meet your every desires.
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Whether you enjoy swinger parties or kink parties, we bring a combination of both in a sexy, warm welcoming enviromnent.
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Explore at your own pace.
A Little About Us
Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
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Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Adult Lifestyle community. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic adult lifestyle events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender. Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at adult lifestyle events across the US.
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