As a Swinger, How Do I Approach Vanilla Couples?
- Mizzy Bender
- 2 days ago
- 2 min read
As a Swinger, How Do I Approach Vanilla Couples?
On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy we are going to be discussing a hot top:
As a Swinger, How Do I Approach Vanilla Couples? Before we get into the main topics, I have a ton of things on my mind. Some may be triggers, but still really important to talk about. Recognizing that mental health is a major topic right now, I am bringing transparency to the world through my story.
Recapped the last two weeks (including some trigger points)
Recapped some thoughts coming out of our swingers party event last weekend
The realness & transparency of what it is like as a swinger
Raffle: comment on my blogs to be entered into the drawing
This path isn’t for everyone—but for those who choose it, it can be a space of empowerment, exploration, and authentic living.
If you’d like to explore more, my blogs are full of personal stories, resources, and thought-starters to help you and your partner navigate this path. You can also reach me directly through mizzybender.com — the safest and most authentic place to connect with me.
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
Xoxo,
Mizzy
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 Your submission is 100% anonymous – no names, no judgment, just raw and real talk. Each week, I’ll pick one question to answer in my advice column on Sundays, 7am via my blog.
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
