MIZZY UNFILTERED

We had the most remarkable time hosting Mindbender Parties Back to School 2025 swingers party. The first time we have held this swingers event in Rhode Island. As soon as the photographer sends us the event photos, I will be updating this blog and posting to my subscription channels. I can not wait to see what was captured. In the meantime, below is what you can expect from today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy.

So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.

Another really important conversation to have is about play style. I am very direct in asking "what is your play style as a swinger?" Everybody is going to have a different answer. It could even vary between committed partners.

The truth? Swinging is as “alright” as the humans who choose to engage in it. At its core, swinging is about consenting adults swapping sexual partners, living outside the traditional monogamous relationships we are all accustomed to. There’s no universal right or wrong...only what aligns with your values, your relationship, and your happiness.

Remember - the swingers lifestyle is supposed to be an extra spark to your primary relationship. You are not supposed to be filling your cup with your swinger relationships when your cup at home needs the filling. It creates off balance, insecurities, jealousy and so much more.

Visiting The High Line at Hudson Yards, New York City, I was beyond thrilled. This has been on my imaginary bucket list for the longest time.

An unfiltered story about surviving domestic abuse and addiction, finding self-worth, and rebuilding a life filled with safety and love.

Questions to Ask a Potential Swinger Partner. This is a topic that is constantly spoken about. This is what I'm going to say to you ... there is no question that is off bounds or off limits if it's important to you. One thing to remember is that YOU are making the decision to sleep with somebody else. It is not your problem if someone

The following week I was on social media, I’m not entirely sure what platform, but I received a message from a guy. Chat rooms and things like that were all over the place back then. I wasn’t so active in them, but I knew of them. When I received the message it wasn’t like it was so far fetched.

Join Mizzy Bender as she shares raw reflections on healing, empowerment, and lifestyle adventures — to powerful lessons in self-growth and emotional freedom.

the hysterectomy journey continues. It was 4:30am when the alarm went off. Time to shower with the surgery soap and head to the hospital. It was the first appointment of the day and I was so grateful. My anxiety wouldn’t have made it to the afternoon.

The perfect homemade granola recipe—crunchy, wholesome, and naturally sweetened. Packed with oats, nuts and a hint of honey, this easy recipe makes a delicious and healthy breakfast or snack

There is something so unbelievably freeing knowing I can sit here and write anything I want. Literally, anything that comes to mind can be turned into a blog. I’ve always imagined having a daily blog where I would chat about everything happening in life but never knew I would actually make that a reality.

3Fun – The Ultimate Dating App for Open-Minded Humans Alright, sexy humas — this is BIG news and I am so EXCITED! You already know I live and breathe the wild, uninhibited world of ethical non-monogamy, and I'm always on the lookout for tools that actually support our lifestyle the way we deserve. So, when the opportunity came to collaborate with 3Fun, I didn’t even blink. Dating app for Swingers, yes please! 3Fun – The Ultimate Dating App for Open-Minded Humans 3Fun – The Ul

Join Mizzy Bender as she shares her deeply personal, raw, and empowering story about her first MFM threesome experience. From nervous excitement to explosive pleasure, this unfiltered blog offers a real-life look into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy.

he would be able to remove everything from my hooo ha, successfully accomplishing this laparoscopically. If I waited even just a bit of time, it would have absolutely turned into a full on belly cut open surgery and my immediate response what fuck that. No way. Was he seriously saying we are doing a hysterectomy?

Explore a raw and relatable journey through severe medical anxiety triggered by illness. Discover practical coping strategies, mindful meditation techniques, and personal insights for overcoming intense panic attacks and reclaiming emotional health.

About a year into dating it was just a nightmare. This really dictated our sex life and any potential opportunities with play partners. Things were so unpredictable. There would be times I would be so excited on event night when I wasn't bleeding and then BAM as soon as we got to the club it would start. It's really not fun. It's actually really gross.

I am so thankful for my step son and always will be. I had the opportunity to be part of his world in such a big way. At the same time, I know that everything I did had layers of reasons attached. Some reasons feel deep and selfish, but I know they were always in the best interest of my step son.

Where to connect with Mizzy Bender and in what ways. From freedom of expression in the nude or sexy, fun and educational interactions. Join Mizzy Bender's OnlyFans page or tune into a Mizzy Bender Podcast. A Swingers Lifestyle Influencer you want to follow.