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Welcome to the Mizzy Bender Blog—your go-to destination for real stories, education, and empowerment specializing in the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) community.
Welcome to the Mizzy Bender Blog — your daily dose of authenticity, empowerment, and unapologetic lifestyle exploration. Here, I share real stories, personal reflections, travel adventures, delicious recipes, and deep insights into the swingers lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy.
This blog is designed to inspire curiosity, spark connection, and remind you that living boldly is a choice you get to make every day. Whether you’re here for education, entertainment, self-growth, or a peek behind the scenes of my life, you’ll find something that speaks to your soul.
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Mizzy Bender Nude: Onlyfans Cooking Show
Mizzy Bender Nude: Onlyfans Cooking Show
Dec 131 min read
My Partner and I Met in the Swingers Lifestyle. Can You Give Us Some Guidance?
My partner and I met in the swingers lifestyle. Can you give us some guidance?
Dec 93 min read
What is Your Play Style as a Swinger?
Another really important conversation to have is about play style. I am very direct in asking "what is your play style as a swinger?" Everybody is going to have a different answer. It could even vary between committed partners.
Dec 23 min read
Questions to Ask a New Swingers Play Partner
So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.
Nov 255 min read
The High Line at Hudson Yards, New York City
Visiting The High Line at Hudson Yards, New York City, I was beyond thrilled. This has been on my imaginary bucket list for the longest time.
Nov 153 min read
Mizzy Bender: Why I am Writing My Story
An unfiltered story about surviving domestic abuse and addiction, finding self-worth, and rebuilding a life filled with safety and love.
Nov 148 min read
Swingers, How Frequently Are you Actually Playing?
Swingers, How Frequently Are you Actually Playing? There is a huge misconception on or maybe expectation on how frequently one should be playing since they are a "swinger." Those that are new, often have this idea in mind which ultimately leads to chaos. My job is to help prevent that.
Nov 102 min read
Easy Pumpkin Muffin Recipe
Whip up these Perfect Easy Pumpkin Muffins in under 30 minutes! Moist, fluffy, and packed with fall flavor — your go-to recipe for cozy mornings and pumpkin spice cravings.
Nov 93 min read
Empowering Words for Women by Women: Featuring Princess Gemini
Welcome to Wild Women Wednesday, a brand-new series on the Mizzy Bender blog dedicated to celebrating unapologetic women who dare to live outside the box. Each week, we’ll spotlight incredible women—sharing their journeys of empowerment, strength, and freedom and beyond.
Nov 53 min read
Mizzy Bender's Lifestyle Journey: The Day I Met My Ex-Husband
The following week I was on social media, I’m not entirely sure what platform, but I received a message from a guy. Chat rooms and things like that were all over the place back then. I wasn’t so active in them, but I knew of them. When I received the message it wasn’t like it was so far fetched.
Nov 44 min read
My Heart, My Healing, My Story: The Truth Behind Mizzy Bender’s Thoughts
Join Mizzy Bender as she shares raw reflections on healing, empowerment, and lifestyle adventures — to powerful lessons in self-growth and emotional freedom.
Oct 306 min read
Wild Women Wednesday: Featuring Yassiris Hernandez-Abed (Sassyyassi)
Wild Women Wednesday, a brand-new series on the Mizzy Bender blog dedicated to celebrating unapologetic women who dare to live outside the box. On Wednesday's we’ll spotlight incredible women—sharing their journeys of empowerment, strength, and freedom and beyond.
Oct 294 min read
As a Swinger, How Do I Approach Vanilla Couples?
On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy we are going to be discussing a hot top:
As a Swinger, How Do I Approach Vanilla Couples? Before we get into the main topics, I have a ton of things on my mind. Some may be triggers, but still really important to talk about. Recognizing that mental health is a major topic right now, I am bringing transparency to the world through my story.
Oct 272 min read
Swingers Party Recap with Mizzy Bender - Mindbender Parties Back to School 2025
We had the most remarkable time hosting Mindbender Parties Back to School 2025 swingers party. The first time we have held this swingers event in Rhode Island. As soon as the photographer sends us the event photos, I will be updating this blog and posting to my subscription channels. I can not wait to see what was captured. In the meantime, below is what you can expect from today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy.
Oct 33 min read
Mizzy Bender's Hysterectomy Journey: Surgery Day
the hysterectomy journey continues. It was 4:30am when the alarm went off. Time to shower with the surgery soap and head to the hospital. It was the first appointment of the day and I was so grateful. My anxiety wouldn’t have made it to the afternoon.
Oct 25 min read
Wild Women Wednesday: Sapphireink
Welcome to Wild Women Wednesday, a brand-new series on the Mizzy Bender blog dedicated to celebrating unapologetic women who dare to live outside the box. Each week, we’ll spotlight incredible women—sharing their journeys of empowerment, strength, and freedom and beyond.
Oct 14 min read
Mizzy Bender's Bisexuality Journey
I do love the ladies, but it's not like I was able to just wake up one day and be like, "Oh, here I am. I like the ladies." It wasn't like that by any means. Let me tell you all about it my bisexuality journey.
Sep 308 min read
I've Developed Feelings for my Swinging Partner
During today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy, I share the challenges of separating emotions and feelings from sex in the swingers' lifestyle—especially for couples who are just starting out. This was a community summited topic, so I wanted to make sure we really tackled the topic head on. Developing feelings for my swinging partner is a No No - and we will get into the thoughts of others, how to avoid it and what to do if it happens.
Sep 293 min read
Mizzy Unfiltered: Navigating Jealousy After an Amazing Swinger Experience
Welcome to Mizzy Unfiltered, where I share my honest truth to your anonymously submitted question.
This is another pretty popular topic in the lifestyle because people do not understand the depths of the lifestyle. Everyone see's these glorified videos showing the excitement instead of the complexities. So let's dive into feeling jealous after an amazing swinger experience...
Sep 284 min read
Daily Thoughts with Mizzy Bender 9.27.25
Rise and shine beautiful humans! It is 4:31am and I am ready to start my day. Normally, this would be my time to journal, but now we are going to transition it to the blog, keeping the same format. Generally, I recap the day before, self reflecting on all of it. So let’s dive into the world of Mizzy Bender.
Sep 278 min read
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