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Welcome to the Mizzy Bender Blog — your daily dose of authenticity, empowerment, and unapologetic lifestyle exploration. Here, I share real stories, personal reflections, travel adventures, delicious recipes, and deep insights into personal healing.
This blog is designed to inspire curiosity, spark connection, and remind you that living boldly is a choice you get to make every day. Whether you’re here for education, entertainment, self-growth, or a peek behind the scenes of my life, you’ll find something that speaks to your soul.
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Walking Pad Confessions: Raw Thoughts, Mental Health & Real Life Ep 3
Welcome to another raw, real, unfiltered conversation with Mizzy Bender.
In this LIVE podcast episode, I hopped on my walking pad and let the conversation flow naturally. From lifestyle talk and mental health to everyday life experiences, this episode is all about keeping it authentic while moving the body and clearing the mind.
2 days ago1 min read
Walking Pad Confessions: Raw Thoughts, Mental Health & Real Life Ep 2
Walking Pad Confessions: Raw Thoughts, Mental Health, Lifestyle & Real Life - Join the conversation
7 days ago1 min read
Swingers Wanna Know Q&A Series The Mizzy Bender Show - An Adult Podcast : Ep 1
Swingers wanna know: Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC.com where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and con
May 22 min read
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 1
Episode 1: LIVE on Instagram & Facebook: Mornings with Mizzy if you missed it! Join me at 8am EST every Monday to talk about it all! Today
Apr 302 min read
Adult Lifestyle Parties Club Rules: For the New Swingers
As we head into a new year of adult lifestyle parties (swingers parties), I thought it was a good idea to outline club rules. Each week we..
Apr 302 min read
Questions to Ask a New Swingers Play Partner
So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.
Apr 305 min read
I am Attending my First Adult Lifestyle Party. What Should I Know?
As the days go by, the adult lifestyle is becoming more and more popular. Many are searching for guidance on what to “expect” when attending
Apr 306 min read
Is it Really Just the Single Guys in the Lifestyle? Ep 6
On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy Podcast, we will be discussing Is it Really Just the Single Guys? It's a reoccurring topic that si
Apr 303 min read
Is it Really Just the Single Guys in the Swingers Lifestyle? Part 3 of 5: Ep 7
On today's episode (part of 5) of Mornings with Mizzy Podcast, we will be discussing Is it Really Just the Single Guys?
Apr 303 min read
What is Your Play Style as a Swinger?
Another really important conversation to have is about play style. I am very direct in asking "what is your play style as a swinger?" Everybody is going to have a different answer. It could even vary between committed partners.
Apr 223 min read
Swingers, How Frequently Are you Actually Playing?
Swingers, How Frequently Are you Actually Playing? There is a huge misconception on or maybe expectation on how frequently one should be playing since they are a "swinger." Those that are new, often have this idea in mind which ultimately leads to chaos. My job is to help prevent that.
Apr 222 min read
Unfiltered Insights into the Swingers Lifestyle: Advice, Real Talk, and Personal Stories from Mizzy Bender
Throughout my experiences as a swingers lifestyle influencer, I’ve heard it all. People often think swinging is simply about casual, consequence-free interactions. In reality, it’s deeply rooted in clear communication, trust-building, and respecting personal boundaries. Forget misconceptions—real swinging requires honesty, patience, and mutual respect.
Apr 224 min read
Is It Alright to be a Swinger?
The truth? Swinging is as “alright” as the humans who choose to engage in it. At its core, swinging is about consenting adults swapping sexual partners, living outside the traditional monogamous relationships we are all accustomed to. There’s no universal right or wrong...only what aligns with your values, your relationship, and your happiness.
Apr 226 min read
When Survival Looked Like Strength -But Really?
It was Easter Eve and we still had the clues to create. It was promised to me that we would tackle it later on in the night. As the time was passing, I was realizing that my ex was getting drunker and drunker.
Jan 277 min read
Book Recommendations by Mizzy Bender 2026
2026 Book Recommendations by Mizzy Bender
Dec 26, 20256 min read
The High Line at Hudson Yards, New York City
Visiting The High Line at Hudson Yards, New York City, I was beyond thrilled. This has been on my imaginary bucket list for the longest time.
Nov 15, 20253 min read
Mizzy Bender: Why I am Writing My Story
An unfiltered story about surviving domestic abuse and addiction, finding self-worth, and rebuilding a life filled with safety and love.
Nov 14, 20258 min read
Easy Pumpkin Muffin Recipe
Whip up these Perfect Easy Pumpkin Muffins in under 30 minutes! Moist, fluffy, and packed with fall flavor — your go-to recipe for cozy mornings and pumpkin spice cravings.
Nov 9, 20253 min read
Empowering Words for Women by Women: Featuring Princess Gemini
Welcome to Wild Women Wednesday, a brand-new series on the Mizzy Bender blog dedicated to celebrating unapologetic women who dare to live outside the box. Each week, we’ll spotlight incredible women—sharing their journeys of empowerment, strength, and freedom and beyond.
Nov 5, 20253 min read
Mizzy Bender's Lifestyle Journey: The Day I Met My Ex-Husband
The following week I was on social media, I’m not entirely sure what platform, but I received a message from a guy. Chat rooms and things like that were all over the place back then. I wasn’t so active in them, but I knew of them. When I received the message it wasn’t like it was so far fetched.
Nov 4, 20254 min read
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