Let’s Talk About It: STDs in the Swinger Lifestyle
- Mizzy Bender
- May 16
- 3 min read

Let’s Talk About It: STDs in the Swinger Lifestyle
When it comes to swinging, communication and consent are the foundation—but health and safety are

just as critical. In this vlog, we break down the realities of STDs in the swingers lifestyle world: the ownership, how to stay protected, and how to normalize honest conversations about testing and treatment. Let’s make sexual health part of the pleasure.
This episode breaks the silence and empowers you to take charge of your sexual health. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or new to the lifestyle, this is essential info.
At-Home STD Testing Options
If you prefer the privacy and convenience of at-home testing, consider the following:
1. myLAB Box
Services: Offers a variety of at-home STD test kits, including panels for common infections.
Process: Order online, collect your sample at home, and mail it to their lab. Results are available online within a few days.
Note: Provides free consultations with physicians if results are positive.
2. Everlywell
Services: Provides at-home STD test kits for various infections.
Process: Similar to myLAB Box, with online ordering and mail-in samples.
Note: Results are reviewed by independent board-certified physicians.
National Resources for Finding Testing Centers
CDC's Get Tested Locator: Use the CDC's Get Tested tool to find free or low-cost STD testing centers near you.
Planned Parenthood: Visit Planned Parenthood to locate health centers offering STD testing services.
Tips for Getting Tested
Frequency: Sexually active individuals should get tested at least once a year, or more frequently if they have multiple partners or engage in unprotected sex.
Preparation: Avoid urinating for at least one hour before a urine-based STD test to ensure accurate results.
Communication: Be open and honest with your healthcare provider about your sexual history to determine the appropriate tests.
Confidentiality: Most clinics offer confidential testing services, and results are typically available within a few day
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
XOXO,
Mizzy
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
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