Traveling Naughty: Our First Adventure with a Single Guy to Fusion Parties - New Hampshire Swingers
- Mizzy Bender
- Mar 30
- 4 min read
Updated: Apr 4
Traveling Naughty: Our First Adventure with a Single Guy to Fusion Parties - Swingers of NH
Good morning, good morning! It’s Saturday, March 22nd, 4:45 AM, and the anticipation of our first adventure with a single guy to Fusion Parties (New Hampshire swingers) is already tingling through my body. We are departing at 9:20 AM, and this trip is unlike any other. For the first time ever, we're traveling with one of our single guys, Charlie (name changed for confidentiality). Usually, it's a female who joins us, so you can imagine my excitement, curiosity, and just how deliciously naughty I'm feeling. I am prepared to dig deep into my soul, baring all the juicy details.
One of my favorite things about our community is the incredible feedback and suggestions I get, especially from my Instagram Broadcast channel. Your recent input sparked some intriguing areas you’d like me to explore
My innermost thoughts throughout the night
What excites me
What annoys me
Non-sexual attractions that excite me
Essentials we take for our productions
I cherish these prompts because they push me to reflect more deeply and honestly, keeping things vibrant and fresh. Today I am going to lay a bit of the foundation for this travel, so If you want to hear how it all goes, follow along.
Setting the Stage
Flashback to Tuesday, 8:22 AM: Our morning kicked off with a sweet, playful message from Charlie in our three-way chat with Spencer. This group chat is key to our (swingers) lifestyle dynamic, providing transparency and open communication. It's essential to maintaining trust, clarity, and harmony.
Now, to give you some context about our play style—Spencer and I are incredibly selective. My journey into the lifestyle wasn't easy. The early experiences left me guarded, sometimes overly cautious. I've shared much of that journey through my blogs, embracing vulnerability and peeling away layers of self-reflection. After considerable introspection, here are some heartfelt reasons I truly cherish this lifestyle:
Freedom to Be Me: There are lifestyle rules, yes, but no life rules boxing me in. I live without negativity or constant worry. I'm colorful, creative, and authentically happy.
Embracing Sexuality Fully: Before Spencer, intimacy and genuine, unconditional love felt unreachable. Spencer created a safe space for me to blossom, break down walls, and finally explore my desires openly and freely. It hasn't been smooth sailing, but every bump taught me something valuable. Therapy and self-reflection have been powerful tools in this healing journey.
Setting Boundaries to Thrive: Managing triggers and learning to set boundaries has been transformative. It's helping me slowly expand beyond my comfort zone, enabling me to genuinely connect at parties beyond my usual circle. I love my 'Mizzy bubble,' but I crave growth and deeper connections.
Keeping all this in mind, I was extra excited for this weekend because it is purely for pleasure—no work, no productions—just pure, unadulterated fun. Traveling with Charlie introduces an exciting dynamic. As someone who deeply enjoys the electrifying energy of MFM scenarios, I'm looking forward to the unique chemistry this weekend could bring out. There's something especially thrilling about traveling with Charlie for the first time.
Background on Charlie
The one thing you should know about Charlie is that he is not lifestyle. He has been to lifestyle parties and has supported Spencer through the years, but that's not him. Even with us, it's a very slow progression and that is okay. You always go the speed of the slowest person. No rushing!
Charlie's biggest concern is messing up his friendship with Spencer. I understand that completely, but I'm not that girl. If there is an issue, I would address it immediately. I would never ever allow their friendship to be ruined over sex. But, because of this, we really need to take our time.
As a matter of fact, I think 5 or 6 months went by before we actually played after the initial proposal. I suggested it one summer night at the bar two years ago. I don't think we actually made it happen until November or December.
Now that you have this tid bit of information, I’m ready to dive headfirst into a weekend of connection, exploration, and plenty of Mizzbehavin'.
This journey is just beginning! Check back on Sundays, 7pm EST for the continuation.
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
XOXO,
Mizzy
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
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