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Go behind the scenes with Mizzy Bender while hosting a Mindbender swingers lifestyle party in Rhode Island, from setup and dancing to the ride home.

Searching for swingers near you but not sure where to start? Learn how to find reputable lifestyle parties, what really happens at swingers events, what to expect your first time, and how to navigate consent, boundaries and party etiquette with confidence.

What happens when two people meet in the swingers lifestyle and become a couple? Learn how to navigate communication, boundaries, trust and your new relationship dynamic before swinging together.

New to the swingers lifestyle and unsure what questions to ask a potential play partner? I'm sharing my thoughts on boundaries, communication, consent, and why you should never settle for anything that doesn't feel right to you.

STI testing and safer sex are important parts of the swinger lifestyle. Let's talk testing, protection, communication, boundaries and what it really means to take ownership of your sexual health.

People often ask how I discovered the swingers lifestyle. It all started with an unexpected introduction in 2018. Here's my story of that first meet and greet and the beginning of a journey I never could have predicted.