MIZZY UNFILTERED

Go behind the scenes with Mizzy Bender while hosting a Mindbender swingers lifestyle party in Rhode Island, from setup and dancing to the ride home.

Spend a day exploring the historic Vanderbilt Museum in Centerport before heading to charming Northport Village. From mansion architecture and incredible collections to unexpected hiking trails, Main Street shops and waterfront charm, here's what made this one of my favorite Long Island day trips.

You forgot to buy a Halloween costume? Perfect. Here are 7 funny, easy last-minute costume ideas for adults, including one that explains EXACTLY why you didn't have time to shop.

Go behind the scenes of Naughty in Neon 2026 in Providence, Rhode Island. From setup to party night and cleanup, see the photos, vlogs and moments that brought this Mindbender Parties lifestyle event to life

The last adult lifestyle event of the year. WOW. I’m a bit speechless as I can’t believe another year has come and gone. I guess that means

Visiting The High Line at Hudson Yards, New York City, I was beyond thrilled. This has been on my imaginary bucket list for the longest time.

For the actual part of the swingers trip, I wanted to record a vlog so you can understand my emotions and true thoughts a little deeper than through just words. Another one for the record books!

It was the week of Shamrocks & Shenanigans when we'd soon see all of our wild & crazy swinger friends and whatever other classification of Ethical Non-Monogamy that you fall into …. and man, was it busy!

December was full of adult lifestyle parties, family functions and the holidays. Take the adventure with me as you read through Mizzy Bender

I have had a lot of time to self reflect these past few weeks and I am really looking forward to 2025. After having to take a major step...

Go on an adventure with Mizzy Bender as she recaps her vacation to Temptation, Cancun, Mexico

Let's get into my thoughts about us going to Temptation, Cancun, Mexico. I honestly didn't know what to expect from this resort...

Mizzy Bender dives into Mindbender Parties swingers party weekend. Taking you on first hand adventure, you get to see what happens at a swingers party.

Mizzy Bender dives into the swingers weekend with Mindbender Parties. Take a peak into what it is really like at a swingers party.

Wow! It's been a great month full of fun, friends and sexy times! In this blog, we're going on an adventure through my thoughts ...

Swingers take on Dirty Circus, Brooklyn.