MIZZY UNFILTERED

What happens when two people meet in the swingers lifestyle and become a couple? Learn how to navigate communication, boundaries, trust and your new relationship dynamic before swinging together.

We had the most remarkable time hosting Mindbender Parties Back to School 2025 swingers party. The first time we have held this swingers event in Rhode Island. As soon as the photographer sends us the event photos, I will be updating this blog and posting to my subscription channels. I can not wait to see what was captured. In the meantime, below is what you can expect from today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy.

“My partner isn’t interested in the swingers lifestyle, but I am. We’ve discussed it a little. I do love and respect my partner and would never do anything they wouldn’t want to do. What do you suggest to someone that wants to play but also doesn’t want to lose their partner?”

Join Mizzy Bender—swinger lifestyle expert and ethical non-monogamy influencer—for a raw and empowering Q&A session. Learn how to build confidence, communicate boundaries, and navigate swinger events like hotel takeovers and club parties. Perfect for beginners and seasoned lifestylers alike.

As we head into a new year of adult lifestyle parties (swingers parties), I thought it was a good idea to outline club rules. Each week we..

So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.

As the days go by, the adult lifestyle is becoming more and more popular. Many are searching for guidance on what to “expect” when attending

The last adult lifestyle event of the year. WOW. I’m a bit speechless as I can’t believe another year has come and gone. I guess that means

Another really important conversation to have is about play style. I am very direct in asking "what is your play style as a swinger?" Everybody is going to have a different answer. It could even vary between committed partners.

The truth? Swinging is as “alright” as the humans who choose to engage in it. At its core, swinging is about consenting adults swapping sexual partners, living outside the traditional monogamous relationships we are all accustomed to. There’s no universal right or wrong...only what aligns with your values, your relationship, and your happiness.

Remember - the swingers lifestyle is supposed to be an extra spark to your primary relationship. You are not supposed to be filling your cup with your swinger relationships when your cup at home needs the filling. It creates off balance, insecurities, jealousy and so much more.

Do I Need a Partner to Be a Swinger? First we need to define what a Swinger is. Swingers are...

Questions to Ask a Potential Swinger Partner. This is a topic that is constantly spoken about. This is what I'm going to say to you ... there is no question that is off bounds or off limits if it's important to you. One thing to remember is that YOU are making the decision to sleep with somebody else. It is not your problem if someone

The following week I was on social media, I’m not entirely sure what platform, but I received a message from a guy. Chat rooms and things like that were all over the place back then. I wasn’t so active in them, but I knew of them. When I received the message it wasn’t like it was so far fetched.

I was really successful, selling hundreds of dollars at a time. It was a lot of fun learning how to run this mini business of mine. Who knew it would have prepped me for my lifestyle journey.

By the time early December came, I knew I was going to have a hard time keeping up with things the way they were going. I was absolutely having the time of my life, but goodness,

I do love the ladies, but it's not like I was able to just wake up one day and be like, "Oh, here I am. I like the ladies." It wasn't like that by any means. Let me tell you all about it my bisexuality journey.

During today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy, I share the challenges of separating emotions and feelings from sex in the swingers' lifestyle—especially for couples who are just starting out. This was a community summited topic, so I wanted to make sure we really tackled the topic head on. Developing feelings for my swinging partner is a No No - and we will get into the thoughts of others, how to avoid it and what to do if it happens.

Welcome to Mizzy Unfiltered, where I share my honest truth to your anonymously submitted question. This is another pretty popular topic in the lifestyle because people do not understand the depths of the lifestyle. Everyone see's these glorified videos showing the excitement instead of the complexities. So let's dive into feeling jealous after an amazing swinger experience...

Where to connect with Mizzy Bender and in what ways. From freedom of expression in the nude or sexy, fun and educational interactions. Join Mizzy Bender's OnlyFans page or tune into a Mizzy Bender Podcast. A Swingers Lifestyle Influencer you want to follow.