Naughty in Neon 2026 - Swingers Lifestyle Party by Mindbender Parties For this blog, I am taking a page out of Martha Stewarts books and going more visual. Enjoy the vlogs & photos! To RSVP to upcoming events, visit www.mindbenderparties.com Day 1 Vlog: Traveling to set up the swingers party The travel was easy peasy, just the way we like it. Having beautiful weather really makes a difference. We also learned that taking a later ferry out makes for a smoother, less hectic t

My partner and I met in the swingers lifestyle. Can you give us some guidance?

We had the most remarkable time hosting Mindbender Parties Back to School 2025 swingers party. The first time we have held this swingers event in Rhode Island. As soon as the photographer sends us the event photos, I will be updating this blog and posting to my subscription channels. I can not wait to see what was captured. In the meantime, below is what you can expect from today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy.

“My partner isn’t interested in the swingers lifestyle, but I am. We’ve discussed it a little. I do love and respect my partner and would never do anything they wouldn’t want to do. What do you suggest to someone that wants to play but also doesn’t want to lose their partner?”

Join Mizzy Bender—swinger lifestyle expert and ethical non-monogamy influencer—for a raw and empowering Q&A session. Learn how to build confidence, communicate boundaries, and navigate swinger events like hotel takeovers and club parties. Perfect for beginners and seasoned lifestylers alike.

As couple, should you play alone as your first Swingers experience? Gosh, it feels like forever! Welcome back after our summer break. During

Swingers wanna know: Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC.com where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and con

As we head into a new year of adult lifestyle parties (swingers parties), I thought it was a good idea to outline club rules. Each week we..

So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.

As the days go by, the adult lifestyle is becoming more and more popular. Many are searching for guidance on what to “expect” when attending

The last adult lifestyle event of the year. WOW. I’m a bit speechless as I can’t believe another year has come and gone. I guess that means

Another really important conversation to have is about play style. I am very direct in asking "what is your play style as a swinger?" Everybody is going to have a different answer. It could even vary between committed partners.

The truth? Swinging is as “alright” as the humans who choose to engage in it. At its core, swinging is about consenting adults swapping sexual partners, living outside the traditional monogamous relationships we are all accustomed to. There’s no universal right or wrong...only what aligns with your values, your relationship, and your happiness.

Remember - the swingers lifestyle is supposed to be an extra spark to your primary relationship. You are not supposed to be filling your cup with your swinger relationships when your cup at home needs the filling. It creates off balance, insecurities, jealousy and so much more.

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The following week I was on social media, I’m not entirely sure what platform, but I received a message from a guy. Chat rooms and things like that were all over the place back then. I wasn’t so active in them, but I knew of them. When I received the message it wasn’t like it was so far fetched.

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