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Welcome to the Mizzy Bender Blog — your daily dose of authenticity, empowerment, and unapologetic lifestyle exploration. Here, I share real stories, personal reflections, travel adventures, delicious recipes, and deep insights into personal healing.
This blog is designed to inspire curiosity, spark connection, and remind you that living boldly is a choice you get to make every day. Whether you’re here for education, entertainment, self-growth, or a peek behind the scenes of my life, you’ll find something that speaks to your soul.
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The Swingers Lifestyle: What Excites Mizzy Bender
Today we are tapping into "What excites" me when attending a swingers party. I am writing in chronological order, so this subject may pop up
Apr 6, 20256 min read
Swingers Lifestyle Travel Check List
Are you headed to your first swingers lifestyle party and don't know what to pack? Don't worry—I've got you covered! Here's your ultimate pa
Apr 4, 20254 min read
Party like it is 2004 - The Year Mizzy Bender Turned 21
July 18, 2004 Mizzy Bender turned 21. Looking back, I can totally understand why I fit so well in an open kind of relationship. I also reali
Apr 1, 20255 min read
Weekend of Desire: Anticipation, Sexting, and Sensual Swingers Adventure Awaits!
Charlie, however, doesn't immediately respond. Instead, he goes silent. My heart sinks momentarily—a familiar feeling since Charlie often dr
Mar 31, 20253 min read
Is it Really Just the Single Guys in the Swingers Lifestyle? Ep 8: Part 4 of 5
On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy Podcast, we will be discussing Is it Really Just the Single Guys? It's a reoccurring topic that si
Mar 31, 20253 min read
Shackled by Love, Saved by Fate: My Journey from Chaos into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was Tuesday morning and my then husband was still shackled up in the basement. I hadn’t seen him all week. I was becoming a bit worried,
Mar 28, 20257 min read
The Swingers Lifestyle: Finding Strength, Secrets, and Self-Discovery in Unexpected Places
We hung out in the backyard around the fire, conversating about everything and nothing at all. It was nice to be in Spencer's company. I was
Mar 27, 20257 min read
Fourth of July - The Turning Point to me Finding my Way into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car
Mar 26, 20257 min read
The Day I Learned about the Swingers Lifestyle by Mizzy Bender
One of the things I am always asked is "How did Mizzy Bender enter the lifestyle?" I am going to begin blogging about my entire experience.
Mar 24, 20259 min read
White Out - A Sexy Swingers Affair
It was our first adult lifestyle (swingers / ethical non monogamy) party of the year and I was super pumped!
Feb 25, 20257 min read
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Podcast (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 4
On this episode of Mornings with Mizzy we discuss the swingers lifestyle in depth including body insecurities, etiquette, vetting, club loca
Feb 18, 20252 min read
Communicating Wants, Needs & Desires in the Swingers Lifestyle on The Mizzy Bender Show - An Adult Podcast : Ep 2
Do you have trouble communicating your wants, needs and desires to your partner or your swingers lifestyle? Tune in for tips and thought sta
Feb 13, 20252 min read
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3 On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy,...
Feb 10, 20252 min read
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 2
Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) topics for today are Club 4 Play recap, play etiquette, getting my partner in
Feb 3, 20252 min read
Mornings with Mizzy: It's all about the Adult Lifestyle is coming back!
Hello my fellow lifestylers and other interested humans! I feel like it's been a bit since I've written, so here I am to tell you what's new
Jan 20, 20255 min read
December Delights: A Recap of Travel, Family, and Christmas Festivities
December was full of adult lifestyle parties, family functions and the holidays. Take the adventure with me as you read through Mizzy Bender
Dec 31, 202411 min read
Merry Christmas Eve 2024 - Introducing My Adult Lifestyle Blog
I have had a lot of time to self reflect these past few weeks and I am really looking forward to 2025. After having to take a major step...
Dec 24, 20244 min read
Mizzy Bender: Navigating the Swinger Lifestyle and Overcoming Divorce & Alcoholism
Mizzy Bender: Navigating the Swinger Lifestyle and Overcoming Divorce & Alcoholism'
Nov 12, 202414 min read
Mizzy's Birthday Bash
It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!
Aug 6, 202414 min read
New Hampshire: The Unexpected Adventure From Swinging to Vanilla
The weekend we didn't know we needed! The weekend we had planned is not the weekend that happened. Read all about our swingers adventure.
Jul 15, 202410 min read
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