Wild Women Wednesday: Featuring Yassiris Hernandez-Abed (Sassyyassi)
- Mizzy Bender
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Empowering Words for Women by Women:
Featuring Yassiris Hernandez-Abed (Sassyyassi)
Wild Women Wednesday
Bold. Unfiltered. Empowered.
Welcome to Wild Women Wednesday, a brand-new series on the Mizzy Bender blog dedicated to celebrating unapologetic women who dare to live outside the box. On Wednesday's we’ll spotlight incredible women—sharing their journeys of empowerment, strength, and freedom and beyond.
This series isn’t just about interviews—it’s about giving a platform to the raw, real voices of women who challenge expectations, break stereotypes, and embrace life in its boldest form. From navigating love and desire to shattering myths about bold, vibrant women, these ladies inspire us all to step into our power and live authentically. It looks different for us all!
Empowering Words for Women by Women!
Meet
Yassiris Hernandez-Abed (Sassyyassi)
Who are you in your own words?
I am a loyal and passionate soul with a spark of sass, unapologetically embracing my truth and every layer of my essence
What’s one word you’d use to define yourself as a “Wild Woman”?
Sassy
What has been the boldest decision you’ve ever made for yourself?
Choosing to release anything and anyone who no longer aligns with my energy or the woman I am becoming
When did you first realize you were meant to live unapologetically?
I was fourteen when I realized I was meant to live unapologetically. I was one of the few girls in high school who wore heels and dressed up every day. I knew then that if I let the stares or whispers affect me, I would have to mold myself to fit in, and that was never an option.
What empowers you the most in your day-to-day life?
Beyond my husband’s love and the joy of having my niece look up to me, what empowers me most is the
confidence that rises with every step in five-inch heels. They remind me that women carry power in every step they take.
What’s one truth about you that surprises people?
People are often surprised to learn that I am an introvert, an author and poet who published her book Melodies of the Heart. I express myself loudly through words and style, even though I find peace in solitude
If you could scream one unfiltered message to the world, what would it be?
Stop the Genocide! Free Palestine, free Congo, and free every soul that lives under oppression. Free your mind from prejudice, judgment, and hatred, because true liberation begins within.
Who are the women (past or present) that inspire you to live boldly?
Marylin Monroe
What advice would you give another woman who is ready to step into her power?
Love every part of yourself before loving anyone else. Be authentic, be real, and never apologize for who you are. True power begins the moment you stop seeking approval and start embracing your truth.
What does being part of a community of Wild Women mean to you?
It means knowing I am not alone, that we stand together in our truth. There is a tribe of women who roar as loud as I do, unapologetically.
If your wild side had a soundtrack, what three songs would be on it?
"Dirty Diana" By Michael Jackson, "Who is She?" and "Sassy Anthem" from Melodies of the Heart-The Album
What’s one adventure still on your bucket list?
Sky diving
What legacy do you want to leave behind?
I want my unspoken words to speak for me, to carry my truth, my heart, and my soul. I want the world to know that you can always be unapologetically yourself, embracing who you are with fearlessness and fabulous grace.
Where can readers find and support you (social links, projects, businesses)?
Social Media: @Sassyyassi
Amazon books: Melodies Of The Heart: Verses of Love, Sorrow and Desire
Celebrating Wild Women Every Where!
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
Xoxo,
Mizzy
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