Swingers & Jealousy | Ethical Non-Monogamy & Jealousy
- Mizzy Bender
- 7 days ago
- 2 min read
Swingers & Jealousy | Ethical Non-Monogamy & Jealousy
Let’s Talk About Swingers & Jealousy: Owning It, Understanding It, and Moving Through It
In this empowering vlog episode, I dive deep into one of the most common — yet rarely talked about —

emotions in ethical non-monogamy: jealousy. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, jealousy can pop up in unexpected ways. But here's the truth: it doesn’t make you weak or “bad” — it makes you human.
You’ll learn:
How to identify the root causes of jealousy
The difference between jealousy and insecurity
Self-reflection practices that actually work
How to communicate jealousy without shame
Mindset shifts for thriving in non-monogamy
Whether you're in an open relationship, exploring polyamory, or part of the swinger lifestyle, this episode offers real talk, supportive tools, and an invitation to grow emotionally stronger — together.
Watch now and start the inner work that leads to our outer connections. Download your free Jealousy Reflection Journal Questions to support your journey.
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
XOXO,
Mizzy
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
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