Empowering Words for Women by Women: Featuring Ash
- Mizzy Bender
- Nov 19
- 3 min read
Empowering Words for Women by Women: Featuring Ash
Wild Women Wednesday
Bold. Unfiltered. Empowered.
Welcome to Wild Women Wednesday, a brand-new series on the Mizzy Bender blog dedicated to celebrating unapologetic women who dare to live outside the box. On Wednesday's we’ll spotlight incredible women—sharing their journeys of empowerment, strength, and freedom and beyond.
This series isn’t just about interviews—it’s about giving a platform to the raw, real voices of women who challenge expectations, break stereotypes, and embrace life in its boldest form. From navigating love and desire to shattering myths about bold, vibrant women, these ladies inspire us all to step into our power and live authentically. It looks different for us all!
Empowering Words for Women by Women!
Meet Ash
Who are you in your own words?
A married mom of 4 who has a spicy side. Between games, cooking dinner and cleaning the house, I create adult content and practice ethical non-monogamy. I embrace my sexuality fully and unapologetically (and share it with the world!)
What’s one word you’d use to define yourself as a “Wild Woman”?
Provocative
What has been the boldest decision you’ve ever made for yourself?
Probably starting to create content. The internet is unpredictable and anything you post could be found by anyone at anytime. Having children, it is certainly a risk to put myself out there in that way.
When did you first realize you were meant to live unapologetically?
I was born rebellious. I have always marched to the beat of my own drum but I really realized it after giving birth to my youngest daughter. I never wanted to be defined as “just a mother”. Us women have unique identities outside of motherhood.
What empowers you the most in your day-to-day life?
My sexual freedom. There is something empowering about rebelling against societal norms. You can be an amazing wife and mother and still be a whore! 🤷🏻♀️
What’s one truth about you that surprises people?
My adult content was nominated for an AVN 🙈
If you could scream one unfiltered message to the world, what would it be?
If you’re not feeding, fucking or financing me; I don’t give a fuck about your opinion.
Who are the women (past or present) that inspire you to live boldly?
Marilyn Monroe- One of the OGs of sexual freedom and glamour!
What advice would you give another woman who is ready to step into her power?
“Well Behaved Women Seldom Make history”
What does being part of a community of Wild Women mean to you?
Acceptance. Sexual freedom is unfortunately still frowned upon in society. Women lose their jobs and children daily for what they do in the bedroom. So to be amongst other women who understand and embrace the lifestyle, it is liberating!
If your wild side had a soundtrack, what three songs would be on it?
Pornstar Dancing- My Darkest Days
Whore- In This Moment
Dope Show- Marilyn Manson
What’s one adventure still on your bucket list?
A gangbang under the stars at Hedo… that’s not too much to ask, is it? 🤭
What legacy do you want to leave behind?
I hope that I am able to inspire other women to find themselves and their sexual being.
Where can readers find and support you (social links, projects, businesses)?
All the important stuff is here:
Celebrating Wild Women Every Where!
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
Xoxo,
Mizzy
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
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