Empowering Words for Women by Women: Featuring Ash
- Mizzy Bender
- Nov 19, 2025
- 4 min read
Updated: Dec 21, 2025
Empowering Words for Women by Women: Featuring Ash
Wild Women Wednesday
Bold. Unfiltered. Empowered.
Welcome to Wild Women Wednesday, a brand-new series on the Mizzy Bender blog. This series is dedicated to celebrating unapologetic women who dare to live outside the box. Every Wednesday, we’ll spotlight incredible women, sharing their journeys of empowerment, strength, and freedom.
This series isn’t just about interviews. It’s about giving a platform to the raw, real voices of women who challenge expectations, break stereotypes, and embrace life in its boldest form. From navigating love and desire to shattering myths about vibrant women, these ladies inspire us all to step into our power and live authentically. It looks different for each of us!
Empowering Words for Women by Women!
Meet Ash
Who are you in your own words?
I’m a married mom of four who has a spicy side. Between games, cooking dinner, and cleaning the house, I create adult content and practice ethical non-monogamy. I embrace my sexuality fully and unapologetically—and I share it with the world!
What’s one word you’d use to define yourself as a “Wild Woman”?
Provocative.
What has been the boldest decision you’ve ever made for yourself?
Probably starting to create content. The internet is unpredictable. Anything you post could be found by anyone at any time. As a mother, it is certainly a risk to put myself out there in that way.
When did you first realize you were meant to live unapologetically?
I was born rebellious. I have always marched to the beat of my own drum. I really realized it after giving birth to my youngest daughter. I never wanted to be defined as “just a mother.” We women have unique identities outside of motherhood.
What empowers you the most in your day-to-day life?
My sexual freedom. There is something empowering about rebelling against societal norms. You can be an amazing wife and mother and still be a whore! 🤷🏻♀️
What’s one truth about you that surprises people?
My adult content was nominated for an AVN. 🙈
If you could scream one unfiltered message to the world, what would it be?
If you’re not feeding, fucking, or financing me, I don’t give a fuck about your opinion.
Who are the women (past or present) that inspire you to live boldly?
Marilyn Monroe—one of the OGs of sexual freedom and glamour!
What advice would you give another woman who is ready to step into her power?
“Well-behaved women seldom make history.”
What does being part of a community of Wild Women mean to you?
Acceptance. Sexual freedom is unfortunately still frowned upon in society. Women lose their jobs and children daily for what they do in the bedroom. Being among other women who understand and embrace the lifestyle is liberating!
If your wild side had a soundtrack, what three songs would be on it?
Pornstar Dancing - My Darkest Days
Whore - In This Moment
Dope Show - Marilyn Manson
What’s one adventure still on your bucket list?
A gangbang under the stars at Hedo… that’s not too much to ask, is it? 🤭
What legacy do you want to leave behind?
I hope to inspire other women to find themselves and their sexual being.
Where can readers find and support you?
All the important stuff is here:
Celebrating Wild Women Everywhere!
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
Xoxo,
Mizzy
Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy
So, you're curious about ethical non-monogamy, or maybe you're already deep into the lifestyle? Awesome! I'm here to spill the tea, share my personal stories, and hook you up with seriously good educational resources. Think of me as your go-to... a judgment-free zone where we connect.
What is Ethical Non-Monogamy?
Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a lifestyle choice that allows individuals to engage in romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners. Unlike traditional monogamy, ENM emphasizes honesty, consent, and open communication. This lifestyle can take many forms, including swinging, polyamory, and open relationships.
The Importance of Communication
In any relationship, communication is key. In ethical non-monogamy, it becomes even more crucial. Partners must discuss their boundaries, desires, and feelings openly. This ensures that everyone involved feels respected and valued.
Navigating Jealousy
Jealousy can be a common emotion in non-monogamous relationships. It’s important to address these feelings head-on. Talk about what triggers jealousy and find ways to reassure each other. Remember, it’s okay to feel jealous; the key is how you handle it.
Finding Your Community
Connecting with like-minded individuals can enhance your experience in ethical non-monogamy. Look for local meetups, online forums, or social media groups. Engaging with others who share your interests can provide support and valuable insights.
Resources for Learning
There are numerous books, podcasts, and websites dedicated to ethical non-monogamy. These resources can help you navigate your journey, offering advice and personal stories from those who have been there.
Conclusion
Ethical non-monogamy is about embracing freedom and authenticity. It allows individuals to explore their desires while fostering deep connections with others. If you’re interested in this lifestyle, remember to communicate openly and seek out supportive communities.
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty, and not-so-fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female who isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life, from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 42-year-old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers/Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast, putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive focus on creating an inclusive and judgment-free environment. Here, we can be who we are without question. It’s a platform to discuss our curiosities, finding like-minded humans to love and support one another.
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