top of page
Search


Booked & Unbound Book Club
Join Mizzy's exclusive adult book club to explore thrilling adventures, captivating romances, and empowering self-growth reads. Indulge your imagination, connect with passionate readers, and discover your next favorite book.
Jun 273 min read


Inside the Swinger Lifestyle: Myths, Realities, and Essential Tips for Newcomers
Join Mizzy Bender, ethical non-monogamy educator and swinger event host, as she debunks myths, clarifies realities, and shares insider tips on navigating swinger events with confidence, communication, and consent.
Jun 253 min read


The Reality Hit - My Womanhood was Being Taken Away : Mizzy's Hysterectomy Journey
he would be able to remove everything from my hooo ha, successfully accomplishing this laparoscopically. If I waited even just a bit of time, it would have absolutely turned into a full on belly cut open surgery and my immediate response what fuck that. No way. Was he seriously saying we are doing a hysterectomy?
Jun 195 min read


Swinger Lifestyle Unfiltered: Body Image, Boundaries, and Mental Health with Mizzy Bender
Welcome to a live Q&A session hosted by me, Mizzy Bender, where I discuss various aspects of the swinger lifestyle, my personal experiences, and answering questions while providing advice and insights. The discussion covers topics such as my struggles with body image and sexuality, my recent weekend adventures, the importance of communication and setting boundaries in the lifestyle, and the role of mental health awareness.
Jun 192 min read


Anxiety is Bullshit!
Explore a raw and relatable journey through severe medical anxiety triggered by illness. Discover practical coping strategies, mindful meditation techniques, and personal insights for overcoming intense panic attacks and reclaiming emotional health.
Jun 154 min read


Reflections on Step-Motherhood and the Complexities of Life
I am so thankful for my step son and always will be. I had the opportunity to be part of his world in such a big way. At the same time, I know that everything I did had layers of reasons attached. Some reasons feel deep and selfish, but I know they were always in the best interest of my step son.
Jun 84 min read


Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle
Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle How to Talk to your Partner about Swinging Mizzy...
Jun 32 min read


Swingers Lifestyle Tips
Recently I hosted a LIVE Swingers Lifestyle Tips Q&A on SDC.com, the largest swingers lifestyle platform. Listen in as I answer questions and share my own thoughts along the way.
Apr 172 min read


Good Morning From Mizzy Bender
Which got me thinking about these blogs. I can legit post whatever I want. I can talk about whatever I want and share whatever photo's I wan
Apr 73 min read


The Swingers Lifestyle: What Excites Mizzy Bender
Today we are tapping into "What excites" me when attending a swingers party. I am writing in chronological order, so this subject may pop up
Apr 66 min read


Fourth of July - The Turning Point to me Finding my Way into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car
Mar 267 min read


The Day I Learned about the Swingers Lifestyle by Mizzy Bender
One of the things I am always asked is "How did Mizzy Bender enter the lifestyle?" I am going to begin blogging about my entire experience.
Mar 249 min read


Is it Really Just the Single Guys in the Swingers Lifestyle? Part 3 of 5: Ep 7
On today's episode (part of 5) of Mornings with Mizzy Podcast, we will be discussing Is it Really Just the Single Guys?
Mar 243 min read


Things To Consider When Becoming A Swinger on The Mizzy Bender Show - An Adult Podcast : Ep 4
Things To Consider When Becoming A Swinger. Are you looking into the swingers lifestyle but not sure the kinds of conversations to have? Lis
Feb 272 min read


75 Day Challenge - Day 2
75 Day Challenge - Day 2 Check In. Yesterday was a such a great day. I had great balance with a few zig zags. I started the day getting my s
Feb 204 min read


75 Day Challenge - Day 1
Day one of the 75 hard is off to a great start. The 75 day challenge motivation for me is to really set my routines. I have a habit of getti
Feb 196 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Podcast (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 4
On this episode of Mornings with Mizzy we discuss the swingers lifestyle in depth including body insecurities, etiquette, vetting, club loca
Feb 182 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3 On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy,...
Feb 102 min read


Swingers Wanna Know Q&A Series The Mizzy Bender Show - An Adult Podcast : Ep 1
Swingers wanna know: Earlier this year, I hosted a LIVE open Q&A on SDC.com where anyone in the community can come and ask questions and con
Feb 62 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 2
Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) topics for today are Club 4 Play recap, play etiquette, getting my partner in
Feb 32 min read
bottom of page