Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle
- Mizzy Bender
- 4 days ago
- 2 min read
Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle
Mizzy Bender discusses the importance of communication in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. Click video below to watch/listen.
The key topics covered include:
Setting Boundaries Before Events
Aligning with your partner on boundaries, limits, and expectations before attending a lifestyle vent is crucial.
I shares personal experiences of setting boundaries and respecting them, even if it means not engaging in certain activities.
Emphasizes the need to have a backup safety plan and be willing to say "no" at any point.
Communicating Expectations and Desires
Discussing your desires, fantasies, and the level of exploration (soft swap, full swap, etc.) with your partner before the event is important.
Avoiding assumptions and ensuring you are on the same page with your partner is essential.
Communicating with play partners about your preferences, boundaries, and safety is mandatory.
Honesty with Yourself and Your Partner
I stresses the importance of self-reflection, journaling, and understanding your own desires, boundaries, and insecurities.
Addressing jealousy and insecurity issues before engaging in the lifestyle is recommended.
Emphasizes the need to be honest with your partner about your experiences and emotions, even if they are uncomfortable.
Communication Challenges and Strategies
Navigating difficult conversations with your partner after an event, addressing any issues or concerns that arose.
Utilizing tools like weekly check-ins, therapy, and communication games to improve communication and understanding.
Encouraging the audience to be transparent, respectful, and prioritize safety and consent in the lifestyle.
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
XOXO,
Mizzy
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Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 41 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
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