MIZZY UNFILTERED

Go behind the scenes with Mizzy Bender while hosting a Mindbender swingers lifestyle party in Rhode Island, from setup and dancing to the ride home.

Searching for swingers near you but not sure where to start? Learn how to find reputable lifestyle parties, what really happens at swingers events, what to expect your first time, and how to navigate consent, boundaries and party etiquette with confidence.

What happens when two people meet in the swingers lifestyle and become a couple? Learn how to navigate communication, boundaries, trust and your new relationship dynamic before swinging together.

“My partner isn’t interested in the swingers lifestyle, but I am. We’ve discussed it a little. I do love and respect my partner and would never do anything they wouldn’t want to do. What do you suggest to someone that wants to play but also doesn’t want to lose their partner?”

I was really successful, selling hundreds of dollars at a time. It was a lot of fun learning how to run this mini business of mine. Who knew it would have prepped me for my lifestyle journey.

Today we are tapping into "What excites" me when attending a swingers party. I am writing in chronological order, so this subject may pop up

It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car

People often ask how I discovered the swingers lifestyle. It all started with an unexpected introduction in 2018. Here's my story of that first meet and greet and the beginning of a journey I never could have predicted.

We headed to New Hampshire expecting a weekend of lifestyle partying, but the universe had other plans! What started as a trip to celebrate with friends turned into botanical gardens, beach adventures, unexpected detours, and some incredible memories with Spencer. Sometimes the best adventures are the ones you never planned!