Do I Need a Partner to Be a Swinger?
- Mizzy Bender
- Nov 18
- 3 min read
Do I Need a Partner to Be a Swinger?
Submitted through Mizzy Unfiltered:
I want to be a swinger, but I need a girl like you to come with me and show me this new lifestyle.
Do I Need a Partner to Be a Swinger?
Do I Need a Partner to Be a Swinger? First we need to define what a Swinger is. Thank you Collins Dictionary for the assistance:
Swingers are people who are married or in a long-term relationship and who like to have sex with other people's partners.
With that being said, I think that it's okay for you to find your way independently. You don't you need a partner to join the lifestyle or some form of ethical non-monogamy. For the purpose of this blog, I am going to assume this writer is a single gentleman. I want you to know, there is absolutely a place for you ... if you are kind, respectful and humble. Keep your ego at the door with any overwhelming characteristics you feel the need to brag about. No one cares. This is the most important piece of advice you will ever receive... LOL per Mizzy Bender.
One of my most favorite compositions is MFM. (note the letters touching matter) I find the composition to be yummy. There are so many things that you can only do when you have more than one partner. Sure, you can use toys, but is that really the same? No, I want the real thing! I'd also like to mention to the extra kinks and exploration of sexual desire that it brings to my relationship. I am able to explore safely with humans I trust.
As a single guy, others need to trust you. You have to interact and engage the right way. If you listen to my advice, leaving the ego at the door, and the also the over enthusiastic excitement ... otherwise known as "being too thirsty," I think that you'll find that you're more accepted than one would think.
You need to get out there, engage in the social forums to find your community. Be openminded and willing to learn. If you do this in a very calm and collected way, I think you will be well received.
For more Mizzy resources: The Quick Details Link
If you’d like to explore more, my blogs are full of personal stories, resources, and thought-starters to help you and your partner navigate this path. You can also reach me directly through mizzybender.com — the safest and most authentic place to connect with me.
Until next time, I will talk to you super soon.
Xoxo,
Mizzy
Mizzy Unfiltered – your chance to ask me anything without holding back. From relationships and lifestyle to personal growth and everything in between, nothing is off-limits.
Your submission is 100% anonymous – no names, no judgment, just raw and real talk. Each week, I’ll pick one question to answer in my advice column on Sundays, 7am via my blog.
For more behind the scenes and closer interactions:
Join SDC - The Largest International Swingers Site
RSVP to our Events - Mindbender Parties
Shop Mizzy's Boutique
Background: Who doesn’t love to talk about sex and everything in between? Mizzy Bender is here to talk through all the down, dirty and not so fun moments that life has to offer. Mizzy is one female that isn’t afraid to embrace all aspects of life from sexuality to success.
Mizzy Bender is a 42 year old female entrepreneur and influencer leading the way within the Swingers / Adult Lifestyle community. If you believe in Ethical Non-Monogamy, this is the community for you. Mizzy’s journey started out with Mindbender Parties and still remains traveling the East Coast putting on full thematic swinger events with her partner in crime, Mr. Mindbender.
Mizzy’s passion and drive is all about creating an environment that is all inclusive and judgment free, where we can be who we are without question. Where one can have a platform to talk about the things we are curious about without question, finding like minded humans to love and support one another.
Through this journey, Mizzy's Boutique was formed. An adult novelty shop starting out online and has since migrated into a traveling pop up boutique at swingers / alternative lifestyle events across the US.
Comments