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How Do I Get My Partner to Participate in the Swingers Lifestyle?
“My partner isn’t interested in the swingers lifestyle, but I am. We’ve discussed it a little. I do love and respect my partner and would never do anything they wouldn’t want to do. What do you suggest to someone that wants to play but also doesn’t want to lose their partner?”
May 246 min read


Questions to Ask a New Swingers Play Partner
So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.
Apr 305 min read


Do I Need a Partner to Be a Swinger?
Do I Need a Partner to Be a Swinger? First we need to define what a Swinger is. Swingers are...
Nov 18, 20253 min read


I've Developed Feelings for my Swinging Partner
During today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy, I share the challenges of separating emotions and feelings from sex in the swingers' lifestyle—especially for couples who are just starting out. This was a community summited topic, so I wanted to make sure we really tackled the topic head on. Developing feelings for my swinging partner is a No No - and we will get into the thoughts of others, how to avoid it and what to do if it happens.
Sep 29, 20253 min read


My First MFM Lifestyle Experience: Absolutely Mind-Bending
Join Mizzy Bender as she shares her deeply personal, raw, and empowering story about her first MFM threesome experience. From nervous excitement to explosive pleasure, this unfiltered blog offers a real-life look into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy.
Jul 10, 20258 min read


Ending our New Hampshire Swingers Trip with a Bang
For the actual part of the swingers trip, I wanted to record a vlog so you can understand my emotions and true thoughts a little deeper than through just words. Another one for the record books!
Apr 20, 20252 min read


Mizzy Bender Exploring Sexual Empowerment: My Wild Early 20s
I don't know the true specifics but, on Friday and Saturdays she would go and sell shots to the crowd. They were looking for more hype girl
Apr 15, 20256 min read


The Swingers Lifestyle: Finding Strength, Secrets, and Self-Discovery in Unexpected Places
We hung out in the backyard around the fire, conversating about everything and nothing at all. It was nice to be in Spencer's company. I was
Mar 27, 20257 min read


The Pineapple Swinger Sign: What Does the Upside Down Pineapple Mean?
The pineapple swinger sign. If you've ever wondered, "What does swinger pineapple mean?" you're not alone! This question often comes up, esp
Mar 18, 20253 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: It's all about the Adult Lifestyle is coming back!
Hello my fellow lifestylers and other interested humans! I feel like it's been a bit since I've written, so here I am to tell you what's new
Jan 20, 20255 min read
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