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Welcome to the Mizzy Bender Blog — your daily dose of authenticity, empowerment, and unapologetic lifestyle exploration. Here, I share real stories, personal reflections, travel adventures, delicious recipes, and deep insights into personal healing.
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Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle
Swingers: Learn How to Communicate Effectively | Communication in the Swingers Lifestyle How to Talk to your Partner about Swinging Mizzy Bender discusses the importance of communication in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. Click video below to watch/listen. The key topics covered include: Setting Boundaries Before Events Aligning with your partner on boundaries, limits, and expectations before attending a lifestyle vent is crucial. I shares personal experience
Jun 3, 20252 min read
The Hysterectomy Journey that Started with an Abortion
Over the last few weeks, I have been at a stand still with writing. Truthfully, with everything and I have finally connected the dots. I’ve created boundaries and spoke my truth. Now, it's time to lay it all out starting at the very beginning which is somewhere during the summer of 1998.
May 4, 20259 min read
Mizzy Bender Exploring Sexual Empowerment: My Wild Early 20s
I don't know the true specifics but, on Friday and Saturdays she would go and sell shots to the crowd. They were looking for more hype girl
Apr 15, 20256 min read
The $1800 Game Changer - Mizzy Bender Making Moves!
When we were intimate, it was addictive. He is the first person to really finger me. The way he worked those fingers showed me that there is
Apr 8, 20256 min read
The Swingers Lifestyle: What Excites Mizzy Bender
Today we are tapping into "What excites" me when attending a swingers party. I am writing in chronological order, so this subject may pop up
Apr 6, 20256 min read
Party like it is 2004 - The Year Mizzy Bender Turned 21
July 18, 2004 Mizzy Bender turned 21. Looking back, I can totally understand why I fit so well in an open kind of relationship. I also reali
Apr 1, 20255 min read
Weekend of Desire: Anticipation, Sexting, and Sensual Swingers Adventure Awaits!
Charlie, however, doesn't immediately respond. Instead, he goes silent. My heart sinks momentarily—a familiar feeling since Charlie often dr
Mar 31, 20253 min read
Shackled by Love, Saved by Fate: My Journey from Chaos into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was Tuesday morning and my then husband was still shackled up in the basement. I hadn’t seen him all week. I was becoming a bit worried,
Mar 28, 20257 min read
Fourth of July - The Turning Point to me Finding my Way into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car
Mar 26, 20257 min read
The Pineapple Swinger Sign: What Does the Upside Down Pineapple Mean?
The pineapple swinger sign. If you've ever wondered, "What does swinger pineapple mean?" you're not alone! This question often comes up, esp
Mar 18, 20253 min read
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Podcast (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 4
On this episode of Mornings with Mizzy we discuss the swingers lifestyle in depth including body insecurities, etiquette, vetting, club loca
Feb 18, 20252 min read
Communicating Wants, Needs & Desires in the Swingers Lifestyle on The Mizzy Bender Show - An Adult Podcast : Ep 2
Do you have trouble communicating your wants, needs and desires to your partner or your swingers lifestyle? Tune in for tips and thought sta
Feb 13, 20252 min read
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3 On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy,...
Feb 10, 20252 min read
December Delights: A Recap of Travel, Family, and Christmas Festivities
December was full of adult lifestyle parties, family functions and the holidays. Take the adventure with me as you read through Mizzy Bender
Dec 31, 202411 min read
Mizzy takes on Temptation Cancun Resort
Let's get into my thoughts about us going to Temptation, Cancun, Mexico. I honestly didn't know what to expect from this resort...
Dec 10, 202410 min read
75 Day Challenge - Day 2
75 day challenge. The Adventures of Mizzy Bender. Mind, Body & Soul
Aug 20, 20243 min read
75 Day Challenge - Day 1
What is the 75 day challenge? I'm going to try to post a blog every day to track my progress. It will be great for my mind, body and soul
Aug 19, 20246 min read
Mizzy's Birthday Bash
It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!
Aug 6, 202414 min read
New Hampshire: The Unexpected Adventure From Swinging to Vanilla
The weekend we didn't know we needed! The weekend we had planned is not the weekend that happened. Read all about our swingers adventure.
Jul 15, 202410 min read
Swingers Party Recap with Mizzy Bender: Naughty in Neon 2024
Mizzy Bender dives into Mindbender Parties swingers party weekend. Taking you on first hand adventure, you get to see what happens at a swingers party.
Jul 11, 20249 min read
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