MIZZY UNFILTERED

The last adult lifestyle event of the year. WOW. I’m a bit speechless as I can’t believe another year has come and gone. I guess that means

I was literally going through the motions of life trying to get to the finish line. Coping with anxiety is rough stuff. The days couldn't come fast enough.

Join Mizzy Bender as she shares her deeply personal, raw, and empowering story about her first MFM threesome experience. From nervous excitement to explosive pleasure, this unfiltered blog offers a real-life look into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy.

Today we are tapping into "What excites" me when attending a swingers party. I am writing in chronological order, so this subject may pop up

Charlie, however, doesn't immediately respond. Instead, he goes silent. My heart sinks momentarily—a familiar feeling since Charlie often dr

It was Tuesday morning and my then husband was still shackled up in the basement. I hadn’t seen him all week. I was becoming a bit worried,

It's a reoccurring topic that single men in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question

It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!

The weekend we didn't know we needed! The weekend we had planned is not the weekend that happened. Read all about our swingers adventure.