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I am Attending my First Adult Lifestyle Party. What Should I Know?
As the days go by, the adult lifestyle is becoming more and more popular. Many are searching for guidance on what to “expect” when attending
Apr 306 min read


Nuttin for XXXmas: Our Last Adult Lifestyle Party of 2024
The last adult lifestyle event of the year. WOW. I’m a bit speechless as I can’t believe another year has come and gone. I guess that means
Apr 229 min read


Fight or Flight Mode: Coping with Anxiety, Surgery Fears & Business
I was literally going through the motions of life trying to get to the finish line. Coping with anxiety is rough stuff. The days couldn't come fast enough.
Aug 26, 20254 min read


My Swinger Lifestyle Birthday Bash
Join Mizzy Bender, swinger lifestyle influencer and educator, as I share intimate reflections from my epic outdoor foam birthday bash. Discover empowering insights on boundaries, self-discovery, community, and how to authentically embrace the swinger lifestyle safely.
Jul 21, 20253 min read


Creating Boundaries in the Swingers Lifestyle
In this episode, Mizzy Bender shares her real-life experiences and expert insights on creating healthy boundaries in the swinger lifestyle. From physical play limits to emotional clarity and aftercare, discover how ethical non-monogamy thrives on communication, respect, and evolving consent. Tune in for practical advice every lifestyle couple needs.
Jun 10, 20253 min read


Shackled by Love, Saved by Fate: My Journey from Chaos into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was Tuesday morning and my then husband was still shackled up in the basement. I hadn’t seen him all week. I was becoming a bit worried,
Mar 28, 20257 min read


Fourth of July - The Turning Point to me Finding my Way into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car
Mar 26, 20257 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: It's all about the Adult Lifestyle is coming back!
Hello my fellow lifestylers and other interested humans! I feel like it's been a bit since I've written, so here I am to tell you what's new
Jan 20, 20255 min read


December Delights: A Recap of Travel, Family, and Christmas Festivities
December was full of adult lifestyle parties, family functions and the holidays. Take the adventure with me as you read through Mizzy Bender
Dec 31, 202411 min read


Mizzy's Birthday Bash
It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!
Aug 6, 202414 min read


New Hampshire: The Unexpected Adventure From Swinging to Vanilla
The weekend we didn't know we needed! The weekend we had planned is not the weekend that happened. Read all about our swingers adventure.
Jul 15, 202410 min read
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