I was really successful, selling hundreds of dollars at a time. It was a lot of fun learning how to run this mini business of mine. Who knew it would have prepped me for my lifestyle journey.

By the time early December came, I knew I was going to have a hard time keeping up with things the way they were going. I was absolutely having the time of my life, but goodness,

I do love the ladies, but it's not like I was able to just wake up one day and be like, "Oh, here I am. I like the ladies." It wasn't like that by any means. Let me tell you all about it my bisexuality journey.

During today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy, I share the challenges of separating emotions and feelings from sex in the swingers' lifestyle—especially for couples who are just starting out. This was a community summited topic, so I wanted to make sure we really tackled the topic head on. Developing feelings for my swinging partner is a No No - and we will get into the thoughts of others, how to avoid it and what to do if it happens.

Welcome to Mizzy Unfiltered, where I share my honest truth to your anonymously submitted question. This is another pretty popular topic in the lifestyle because people do not understand the depths of the lifestyle. Everyone see's these glorified videos showing the excitement instead of the complexities. So let's dive into feeling jealous after an amazing swinger experience...

3Fun – The Ultimate Dating App for Open-Minded Humans Alright, sexy humas — this is BIG news and I am so EXCITED! You already know I live and breathe the wild, uninhibited world of ethical non-monogamy, and I'm always on the lookout for tools that actually support our lifestyle the way we deserve. So, when the opportunity came to collaborate with 3Fun, I didn’t even blink. Dating app for Swingers, yes please! 3Fun – The Ultimate Dating App for Open-Minded Humans 3Fun – The Ul

Join Mizzy Bender, swinger lifestyle influencer and educator, as I share intimate reflections from my epic outdoor foam birthday bash. Discover empowering insights on boundaries, self-discovery, community, and how to authentically embrace the swinger lifestyle safely.

Join Mizzy Bender as she shares her deeply personal, raw, and empowering story about her first MFM threesome experience. From nervous excitement to explosive pleasure, this unfiltered blog offers a real-life look into the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode, Mizzy Bender shares her real-life experiences and expert insights on creating healthy boundaries in the swinger lifestyle. From physical play limits to emotional clarity and aftercare, discover how ethical non-monogamy thrives on communication, respect, and evolving consent. Tune in for practical advice every lifestyle couple needs.

Setting healthy boundaries when entering the swingers lifestyle will be something I always advocate for. Over the last few episodes, we've

Today we are tapping into "What excites" me when attending a swingers party. I am writing in chronological order, so this subject may pop up

Are you headed to your first swingers lifestyle party and don't know what to pack? Don't worry—I've got you covered! Here's your ultimate pa

The pineapple swinger sign. If you've ever wondered, "What does swinger pineapple mean?" you're not alone! This question often comes up, esp

It's a reoccurring topic that single men in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question

It was our first adult lifestyle (swingers / ethical non monogamy) party of the year and I was super pumped!

Mornings with Mizzy: Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy Episode 5 Do I ever need a break from the lifestyle and do I play at our events.

On this episode of Mornings with Mizzy we discuss the swingers lifestyle in depth including body insecurities, etiquette, vetting, club loca

Do you have trouble communicating your wants, needs and desires to your partner or your swingers lifestyle? Tune in for tips and thought sta

Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3 On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy, we will be discussing: Questions of the week: Biggest turn on Position - missionary or doggy How do I get my wife involved How many times a week for sex Misc Mizzy Topics Upcoming Events About Mornings with Mizzy Are you curious about exploring an open relationship style but not sure where to begin? Many think they want to be swingers but co

Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) topics for today are Club 4 Play recap, play etiquette, getting my partner in