MIZZY UNFILTERED

Go behind the scenes with Mizzy Bender while hosting a Mindbender swingers lifestyle party in Rhode Island, from setup and dancing to the ride home.

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Go behind the scenes of Naughty in Neon 2026 in Providence, Rhode Island. From setup to party night and cleanup, see the photos, vlogs and moments that brought this Mindbender Parties lifestyle event to life

So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.

The truth? Swinging is as “alright” as the humans who choose to engage in it. At its core, swinging is about consenting adults swapping sexual partners, living outside the traditional monogamous relationships we are all accustomed to. There’s no universal right or wrong...only what aligns with your values, your relationship, and your happiness.

July 18, 2004 Mizzy Bender turned 21. Looking back, I can totally understand why I fit so well in an open kind of relationship. I also reali

It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car

The pineapple swinger sign. If you've ever wondered, "What does swinger pineapple mean?" you're not alone! This question often comes up, esp

It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!

Mizzy Bender dives into the swingers weekend with Mindbender Parties. Take a peak into what it is really like at a swingers party.

Who is Mizzy Bender? Discover the story behind the bold, unfiltered brand, from starting over and finding the swingers lifestyle to Mindbender Parties, Mornings with Mizzy, self-love, healing, relationships, adventure and building a life on my own terms.