MIZZY UNFILTERED

So many jump into the swingers lifestyle having a preconceived idea of sunshine and rainbows but in actuality, that's not really what happens. Unfortunately, unless you are reading the blogs and listening to the podcasts to help educate you, things usually are messy.

The last adult lifestyle event of the year. WOW. I’m a bit speechless as I can’t believe another year has come and gone. I guess that means

The truth? Swinging is as “alright” as the humans who choose to engage in it. At its core, swinging is about consenting adults swapping sexual partners, living outside the traditional monogamous relationships we are all accustomed to. There’s no universal right or wrong...only what aligns with your values, your relationship, and your happiness.

For the actual part of the swingers trip, I wanted to record a vlog so you can understand my emotions and true thoughts a little deeper than through just words. Another one for the record books!

I don't know the true specifics but, on Friday and Saturdays she would go and sell shots to the crowd. They were looking for more hype girl

It was Tuesday morning and my then husband was still shackled up in the basement. I hadn’t seen him all week. I was becoming a bit worried,

We hung out in the backyard around the fire, conversating about everything and nothing at all. It was nice to be in Spencer's company. I was

It was an awkward drive to work. The silence in the car was unbearable. We spent a lot of mornings like that, but that was our life. We car

The memories of Saturday night lived on in my head for a long time. Who would have ever thought I would be at a swingers meet & greet. Never

December was full of adult lifestyle parties, family functions and the holidays. Take the adventure with me as you read through Mizzy Bender

I have had a lot of time to self reflect these past few weeks and I am really looking forward to 2025. After having to take a major step...

It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!

The weekend we didn't know we needed! The weekend we had planned is not the weekend that happened. Read all about our swingers adventure.

Wow! It's been a great month full of fun, friends and sexy times! In this blog, we're going on an adventure through my thoughts ...