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Walking Pad Confessions 👀 Raw Thoughts, Mental Health & Real Life Ep 1
Walking Pad Confessions 👀 Raw Thoughts, Mental Health & Real Life with Mizzy Bender
May 131 min read


As a Swinger, I am Disappointed I am Not Playing
Remember - the swingers lifestyle is supposed to be an extra spark to your primary relationship. You are not supposed to be filling your cup with your swinger relationships when your cup at home needs the filling. It creates off balance, insecurities, jealousy and so much more.
Jan 125 min read


Swingers Store created by Mizzy Bender
Mizzy Bender, Swingers Lifestyle entrepreneur, created a swingers store when there wasn't much on the market. It was an exciting time learning and growing about the pineapple swinger symbol ! Check out some of the upside down pineapple merchandise Mizzy's Boutique has to offer.
Dec 22, 20252 min read


I've Developed Feelings for my Swinging Partner
During today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy, I share the challenges of separating emotions and feelings from sex in the swingers' lifestyle—especially for couples who are just starting out. This was a community summited topic, so I wanted to make sure we really tackled the topic head on. Developing feelings for my swinging partner is a No No - and we will get into the thoughts of others, how to avoid it and what to do if it happens.
Sep 29, 20253 min read


Weekend of Desire: Anticipation, Sexting, and Sensual Swingers Adventure Awaits!
Charlie, however, doesn't immediately respond. Instead, he goes silent. My heart sinks momentarily—a familiar feeling since Charlie often dr
Mar 31, 20253 min read


Shackled by Love, Saved by Fate: My Journey from Chaos into the Swingers Lifestyle
It was Tuesday morning and my then husband was still shackled up in the basement. I hadn’t seen him all week. I was becoming a bit worried,
Mar 28, 20257 min read


The Swingers Lifestyle: Finding Strength, Secrets, and Self-Discovery in Unexpected Places
We hung out in the backyard around the fire, conversating about everything and nothing at all. It was nice to be in Spencer's company. I was
Mar 27, 20257 min read


The Pineapple Swinger Sign: What Does the Upside Down Pineapple Mean?
The pineapple swinger sign. If you've ever wondered, "What does swinger pineapple mean?" you're not alone! This question often comes up, esp
Mar 18, 20253 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Podcast (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 5: Is it Really Just the Single Guys?
It's a reoccurring topic that single men in the swingers lifestyle get such a bad wrap. But why? I did some research by posting the question
Mar 3, 20252 min read


White Out - A Sexy Swingers Affair
It was our first adult lifestyle (swingers / ethical non monogamy) party of the year and I was super pumped!
Feb 25, 20257 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Podcast (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 5
Mornings with Mizzy: Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy Episode 5
Do I ever need a break from the lifestyle and do I play at our events.
Feb 24, 20252 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3
Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 3 On today's episode of Mornings with Mizzy, we will be discussing: Questions of the week: Biggest turn on Position - missionary or doggy How do I get my wife involved How many times a week for sex Misc Mizzy Topics Upcoming Events About Mornings with Mizzy Are you curious about exploring an open relationship style but not sure where to begin? Many think they want to be swingers but co
Feb 10, 20252 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) Episode 2
Adult Lifestyle Conversation (Swingers / Ethical Non Monogamy) topics for today are Club 4 Play recap, play etiquette, getting my partner in
Feb 3, 20252 min read


Mornings with Mizzy: It's all about the Adult Lifestyle is coming back!
Hello my fellow lifestylers and other interested humans! I feel like it's been a bit since I've written, so here I am to tell you what's new
Jan 20, 20255 min read


Mizzy's Birthday Bash
It's my birthday and we've got things going on! We'll be recapping the beach, talking about my actual birthday and our swingers party!
Aug 6, 202414 min read


New Hampshire: The Unexpected Adventure From Swinging to Vanilla
The weekend we didn't know we needed! The weekend we had planned is not the weekend that happened. Read all about our swingers adventure.
Jul 15, 202410 min read


Dirty Circus - Brooklyn, New York
Swingers take on Dirty Circus, Brooklyn.
Oct 3, 20237 min read


Naughty Indulgence : Brand Ambassador
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Feb 18, 20211 min read
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